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Signs and Synchronicity

2/27/2018

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For 36 years, I ignored signs and synchronicity.  To this day, I still miss them sometimes.  Ya know, those things called life, kids, work, school, grocery shopping, and 9th grade math homework that I don't understand get in the way. 

But tonight—tonight was different.  I sent a message to a dear friend of mine I've known for  many, many years. We were catching up on life on text while we were both helping our kiddos. A little while before reaching out to her, I was looking through the Little Light Project website blog looking for a post Scott had written a long time ago about what it's like to have a "psychic" wife. I couldn't find it, but I did find a recap of an event we went to in Sedona in 2013.  Alongside spritual thought leaders like Jean Houston, a doctor by the name of Dr. Rajiv Parti shared his near death experience (NDE) on the Sedona World Wisdom Days stage. It was extremely powerful, to say the least. I hadn't laid my eyes on this blog in five years, and frankly, I'd forgotten about the doctor and his incredibly journey. I actually didn't pay much attention to the blog other than to look at some photos and remember that I had my picure taken with Jean.  I didn't even see Dr. Parti's portion of the blog.

Now, let's go back to my friend and our text chat.  I sometimes forget that she, too, survived a near death experience.  All of the sudden, as we're chatting, I start paying attention to chills and signs as she's sharing thoughts she's never expressed before. As you can imagine, it's quite an adjustment after you die and come back. I share what I'm feeling for her and getting intutiively, as I do when this happens. Out of nowhere, I remember that I was looking for that blog post and I check the tab at the top of my screen.  Staring straight at me is the blog post about Jean Huston and wouldn't you know it, Dr. Parti's story.  His section was literally looking me in the eye. I started reading it and then I sent it to my friend who read it and said she could relate to much of what he said. She also said, "Wow!" at the synchronicity of the events.  We don't talk about the NDE much.  We haven't in awhile but tonight, we did. And tonight of all nights, before talking with her, I "accidentally" found the blog that addressed an NDE story I'd totally forgotten about.  One that, if you believe in synchronicity, you would say she was meant to read. 

I'm beyond grateful to feel like a kid, again—after living mostly in survival mode (through abuse) from 2014-2017—looking at life through a magical, multidimensional lens in wonder and awe. Turns out, when things calm down and you get your center back, the whole world opens up. And the whole world conspires WITH you. As C.G. Jung said, "Synchronicity is an ever present reality for those who have eyes to see."  

May we never close our eyes. Ever. 

P.S. If you've experienced a near death experience and are trying to come to grips with it, check the book, 37 Seconds, written by Stephanie Arnold. She's the real deal, a beautiful human being, and a fantastic writer. Thank you for sharing your journey, Steph. <3 
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1 Comment
Subzero Kari
2/28/2018 06:57:43 am

Survival mode sure does take a lot of the fun out of life for those caught in trauma and abuse. I am so grateful to be on the survivor side of abuse, and notice the same return of heightened awareness of daily synchronicities, as well as the improvement of other mental functions like memory and creativity! Thank you for shining a light on this subject, Kiersten. We all benefit from a better understanding of the dynamics of narcissistic abuse, and it sure feels good to know that we can recover much of what we lost once we are free from *survival mode* and LIVING LIFE again! ❤️

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